这不是个吵架帖，开个贴专门讨论怎么用英语和别人吵架！

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我不知道大家有没有经历过，在澳洲碰到特别可恶的人实在气不过，要与之理论几句的。

我说说我的经历，我孩子还在三四岁的时候，有一次在商场里面小型的play ground玩，被一个大孩子大概八九岁的样子欺负了。先是被推倒，起来后我孩子还想继续玩，又被大孩子揪了头发，就哭起来。当时我看到很生气，相信换了是谁的孩子被欺负成这样都要生气，我与大孩子理论了几句，后来大孩子的妈妈赶过来向我道歉这事才算完。

还有一次，是在电影院看电影，孩子有点小情绪哼唧了几声，就有人过来说我们不该带小孩看电影，我们说会把孩子抱出去，她还在说我们ridiculous，电影散场后我很生气，PG的电影为什么我们不能带孩子来看，电影院又不是她家开的，她凭什么这么说我们，所以去和她解释了一下，对方态度很差，一副臭脸离开。

总之，我觉得来这边上了这么多年学，久居至此，居然在英语和别人理论吵架方面还有这么大空白，真应该恶补一下，专门针对个别的恶人、人渣。反正动嘴不动手，得理为什么要饶人，骂要骂得绅士，还要显示语言能力更胜一筹。

希望大家有好的建议也在此留言。

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借鉴一些网上查来的网友留有，贴在这里，自己也学一下。
Well, telling a person all that is difficult to do without insulting them. I find the best way is to refrain from calling their intelligence into question, but rather to say something like: "You sound confused on this subject. Maybe you should look up the facts for yourself." Or, "You've gotten some bad information; I'm surprised you don't know this, but actually....." This way you are not calling them stupid but are merely implying that maybe they have learned from a bad source. It gives them an 'out" and a chance to admit they were wrong and blame someone else for their errors.

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自私自利，狂妄自大，尖酸刻薄的人
selfish，mean，arrogant
having or showing feelings of unwarranted importance
Arrogant people are "full of themselves." They think they are the best and they constantly remind people of how "great" they are.

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粗野粗鲁的
boorish
ill-mannered and coarse in behavior or appearance
A boorish person is a slob. They are rude, uncultured and disgusting. They have no manners. They might have little education too. Think of a boar which is a wild male pig.

jayky

个人观点啊，吵架主要是气势，说什么并不重要，用母语最好，对方能不能听懂无所谓，就算听不懂，也肯定明白你是在骂他……事实上一般吵架的时候，谁会去特别关注对方说了啥啊……

最后补充一句：能动手尽量别BB……

ann@2209

楼主这问题等于问"我身高一米六，如何能俯视一米八的人?"又好比学中文的鬼佬问说我怎么能在跟中国人吵架的时候表现的中文能力比中国人更胜一筹?

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cantankerous脾气坏的；好争吵的；难相处的
stubbornly obstructive and unwilling to cooperate
Cantankerous people are stubborn. They rudely refuse to go along with the flow. Cantankerous people are irritating to work with.

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cunning狡诈的狡猾的人
marked by skill in deception
Cunning people are sneaky, but they are especially good at it

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cynical这词比较熟悉，形容愤世嫉俗的、冷嘲热讽的、喜欢挖苦别人的人
believing the worst of human nature and motives
A cynical person tends to be suspicious of other people's motives and behaviors. Any good act shown to them is often believed to be done for a different reason. For example, if someone does a favor for a cynical person, the cynic is likely to think, "She is only being nice to me, because she wants something from me."

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domineering这个词也不陌生，我一贯以为狮子座的人都很dominate，这个词应该就是dominate控制、占领的形容词吧，用来形容专横的、作威作福的人吧
tending to rule in a cruel manner
A domineering person is bossy. They try to dominate every situation and relationship.

idlepoison

这都成学术讨论帖了
直接上f word就好了

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indolent懒惰的、慢腾腾的（挺适合我）
disinclined to work or exertion
Indolent people are lazy. Their laziness is so extreme that they basically refuse to work even when asked and pleaded with.

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intolerant不能容忍的、偏执的（也挺适合我）
unwilling to tolerate difference of opinion
An intolerant person does not like the opinions an beliefs of other people. Intolerant people are often bigoted and prejudiced.

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irresponsible不负责任的人，目视周围比比皆是啊
showing lack of care for consequences
Irresponsible people are not responsible or trustworthy. They often break things that belong to other people and care very little about the situation. They are late to things and offer no apologies for it.

jhua4597

一般我直接上一下：

F**K you Mother f**ker, what you gonna do about it / mind your own business

Mate(重音), wha you just say? say it to my face again

Mate(重音), do we have a problem here?

it's a free country, I do whatever I f**ken feel like, you gonna a problem, I have a solver, it's call a revolver

说话的时候要叉腰瞪眼一副准备要干架的毛利人的样子，一般对方就窘了

当然了，要是你觉得干不过，那就别计较，赶紧走人。

menggu

我觉得这边的人秉承英国风范，吵架用f word会显得比较粗鲁，能沉着的讽刺对方会更容易让对方闭嘴。要想做到这点确实很难。我一般通过看电影来学习方法

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Machiavellian不择手段的，比狡诈再严肃一些的马基雅维利主义
of or relating to amoral or conniving political principles
A Machiavellian personality is one that complex and sneaky. They are selfish and try to get what they want through crafty and mean actions. Machiavellian types are cold and detached--they seem to have no real feelings toward anyone else. In this way, they don't mind hurting other people's feelings as long as they are getting what they desire.
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马基雅维利(Machiavelli，1469—1527)是意大利政治家和历史学家，以主张为达目的可以不择手段而著称于世，马基雅维利主义(machiavellianism)也因之成为权术和谋略的代名词。马基雅维利主义，即个体利用他人达成个人目标的一种行为倾向。

wangvw

这个确实不容易，如果到时候说不利索更加不利。而且太复杂的也不利于口语表达。

理解楼主的心情，要么先对着镜子从简明扼要的连起。

hyl427

直接让他/她 fxxk off。多说无益

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miserly吝啬的贪婪的，有点像mean吧，更侧重金钱方面的小气与吝啬。有用，mark一下
characterized by or indicative of lack of generosity
Miserly people love money and they don't like to spend it. They are stingy, mean and highly protective of their money. Misers would never donate any money to anyone--ever! The classic miser is Scrooge from Charles Dickens's "A Christmas Carol."

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升为草鞋了，庆祝一下

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obsessive强迫症来了，别拍我我怕
a person who has compulsive preoccupations
Obsessive people have unnaturally high feelings toward certain things. An obsessive boyfriend might stalk his girlfriend and check her text messages on her phone to make sure that she is not cheating on him. Obsession is liking and needing something times 10!

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patronizing以恩人自居的；居高临下的（英语里居然还有这种词，怎么也得专业英语八级吧，收了）
characteristic of those who treat others with arrogance
"That's pretty good for a kid." Have you ever heard this "compliment?" Well, if you have, you've been patronized.

Another example would be if you failed a test, but your parent said, "Well, I know you tried your best, but you still failed." It seems like a compliment, but...it's really a put down.
一旦加了but，however，毋庸置疑但是后面才是重点。

Mintlolly

楼上的在这里开英文课了

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ann@2209 发表于 2017-8-25 15:55
楼主这问题等于问"我身高一米六，如何能俯视一米八的人?"又好比学中文的鬼佬问说我怎么能在跟中国人吵架的 ...

能讲理当然先讲理，讲不通就上高级贬义词。

当然这里不局限于跟鬼佬吵，跟鬼佬我建议比个中指赶紧跑。。

我备着是和英语为母语国家的人吵，或者是为了让周围观战的鬼佬听得明白真切时用的。

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hyl427 发表于 2017-8-25 16:55
直接让他/她 fxxk off。多说无益

这也是一种快速有效的办法，就是太多人用了，不显高级。

我在寻求儒雅的吵架，找一些高大上的词汇和说法。

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pompous傲慢的；自大的；浮华的
意同arrogant
用来形容 people puffed up with vanity过度自负的人
A pompous person thinks they are awesome and self-important. Their arrogance is flaunted around for all to see. Pompous is sometimes paired with the word, "jerk." For example, "Did see the way that pompous jerk cut in line and smiled at everyone?"

hyl427

芦苇微微 发表于 2017-8-25 17:33
这也是一种快速有效的办法，就是太多人用了，不显高级。

我在寻求儒雅的吵架，找一些高大上的词汇和说法 ...

关键是别人听不懂呀…………吵架吵得就是个通俗易懂 Lol

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procrastinator拖延者；拖拉者；因循者
艾玛，重度拖延症患者呗
someone who postpones work
A procrastinator is someone who puts off tasks. They feel that they will do it later--most often, it never gets done.

1997

咱华人多文雅，吵架都能搞成技术贴