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大家都晒牛娃，我要来“自曝家丑”。 小朋友三年级，男娃。今天收到学校邮件，在学校被time out 了，去了responsible thinking room, 原因是拿球扔女同学。还有就是run away when he was called over. 脑子是不是缺根筋。。 他二年级转学过来，因为home schooling ，没啥朋友，总说孤单。三年级重新分班，遇见一个跟他玩的不错的小朋友，我这没高兴多久他就被time out。他属于那种小跟班，跟好学好跟坏学坏。自己不拿主意，但是别人有什么坏点子，他是最兴奋的那个。气死我了，shame 。 我想问大家（估计大家都是牛娃，这方面经验也不多）， 这个去responsible thinking room 会记过吗？我也许有点多虑，不过想搞清楚。感觉老师邮件满严肃的。想想，我们上学那会，不也有些同学被叫家长。但我不知道澳洲的体系。下面是我回的邮件，不知道有没有overreacting, 请前辈指教。 Dear Ms G, Thank you for your email. I apologize for D's behavior. Me and his dad had a big and long conversation with him today. Throwing a ball at others, especially female students is unacceptable. We have been telling him that never treat people the way he doesn't want to be treated. Unfortunately, he didn't listen. I will make sure he understands and follows the behavior expectations. He will be not allow to watch TV and play IPad this weekend. May I also please request to separate him and E in school for at least two weeks from tomorrow. I was glad that he found a mate to play with and didn't complain he was lonely during the play time. However, if he can't do the right thing with his mate, I'd rather him be lonely. Thanks again for your notification. Please feel free to contact me anytime if he doesn't behave himself. 老母亲心都操碎了。我要再收到学校的信，我就要动手了。 |
